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Gatekeeping in Divided Times

Steadfast and Compassionate

In seasons when our nation feels deeply divided and tensions rise, it can be easy to feel the weight of the world pressing in on our shoulders. For those entrusted with the sacred responsibility of serving as Gatekeepers—protecting the house of worship and all who enter—these times can feel especially heavy. News headlines, public tragedies, and heightened hostility toward the Christian community can stir up anxieties, sharpen fears, and even tempt us to lose sight of our higher calling.

But as followers of Christ, and as protectors of His church, we are reminded that our mission is not shaped by the noise of the culture around us, but by the eternal charge to love, serve, and safeguard God’s people.

 


 

Protecting Without Hardening

It’s natural, in seasons of tension, for hearts to harden. Fear and frustration can lead us to see others as threats before seeing them as people. Yet Jesus calls us to something higher: “Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you” (Matthew 5:44).

For Gatekeepers, this does not mean lowering vigilance or neglecting duty. Instead, it means that even as we stand watch, we guard against bitterness and cynicism. Protection and compassion are not opposites—they are partners. We can remain sharp, alert, and disciplined in our work while still carrying the heart of Christ toward those we serve, and even toward those who may oppose us.

 


 

Anchored in the Mission

The charge given to each Gatekeeper is clear: to ensure that our house of worship remains a safe place for God’s people to gather, pray, and grow in faith. When distractions from politics, cultural strife, or tragic events threaten to pull our focus away from that mission, we steady ourselves by remembering who we ultimately serve.

We are not guarding merely a building—we are protecting a sacred space where lives are transformed, families are healed, and souls are saved. That perspective lifts our eyes above the fray and keeps us mission-focused, even when tensions outside the church walls are loud.

 


 

Guarding Our Own Hearts and Minds

The work of security can take a toll. Constant vigilance, exposure to troubling news, and the weight of responsibility can stir anxiety, stress, or even anger. Scripture reminds us: “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God” (Philippians 4:6).

Practical steps to protect our own well-being include:

  • Prayer before service: Centering ourselves in God’s peace before taking our post.

  • Breathing and grounding: Practicing simple techniques to calm racing thoughts when anxiety rises.

  • Team support: Checking in on one another, encouraging, and reminding each other of the mission.

  • Healthy perspective: Remembering that God Himself is our ultimate protector, and we serve under His watchful care.

 


 

A Spirit of Calm in the Midst of Division

When worshipers see Gatekeepers at the door or in the aisles, they take cues from us. If we are anxious, distracted, or visibly weighed down, it can spread unease. But when we embody steadiness—calm eyes, measured actions, quiet confidence—those entering God’s house feel secure.

Our calm presence communicates something greater than ourselves: the peace of Christ that steadies hearts in troubled times. We are not just guarding the physical safety of the church; we are also shaping the spiritual climate of welcome, reassurance, and compassion.

 


 

Encouragement for the Road Ahead

Brothers and sisters, the days we are living in are undeniably heavy. Yet the Lord has appointed you for such a time as this. Your faithfulness, discipline, and compassion are not unnoticed. Every Sunday, thousands worship freely under your protection. Every prayer lifted in that sanctuary rests on the foundation of your quiet, steady presence.

Stay focused. Stay compassionate. Stay faithful. As Paul encouraged the Corinthians: “Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith; be courageous; be strong. Do everything in love” (1 Corinthians 16:13-14).

This is the heart of the Gatekeeper: watchful, steadfast, and above all, compassionate.

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Lyle Labardee, MS, LPC
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